Meet Camelita Poate (Abrahams-Arendse), a proud Cape Flats Girlie from Bishop Lavis, whose journey is a testament to resilience, strength, and empowerment. Born in 1982 and raised by her grandparents, Camelita faced adversity early on, especially with familial ties to gangsterism. Yet, her grandmother instilled a sense of fortitude that would guide her through life's challenges.
After a decade in a toxic and abusive marriage, Camelita found the courage to leave in 2011, prioritizing her well-being and that of her two beautiful daughters. Moving in with her aunt in Parow, she pursued education, ultimately graduating with a National Diploma in Human Resource Management in 2022.
In a remarkable twist, Camelita embraced her childhood dream of modeling and pageantry alongside her eldest daughter. In 2023, she was crowned 2nd Princess Mrs. Western Province, a recognition reflecting her resilience and renewed ambitions. “Pageantry has allowed me to embrace my true self,” she shares, highlighting how this journey has deepened her bond with her daughter.
A devoted mother, Camelita teaches her daughters the importance of self-worth and empathy. Her youngest aspires to be a forensic anthropologist, showcasing the diverse dreams nurtured within their home.
Camelita emphasizes, “Always put yourself first,” a mantra rooted in the wisdom gained through struggle. As she looks to the future—dreaming of becoming Mrs. SA and completing her psychology studies—Camelita Poate embodies hope and strength, inspiring women everywhere to rise, shine, and embrace their journeys.
Her story is a powerful reminder that, with love and resilience, anything is possible.